Are you one of those who believe marriages of celebrities are
farcical or ephemeral? DOYIN ADEOYE writes on star-couples whose marital
lives not only stand the test of time but also serve as standard
bearers of matrimony.
Isaac and Nneka MosesTalk Goge Africa and the
first name that comes to mind are Isaac and Nneka Moses’. They are one
couple whose marriage tells a story of faith, love and excitement.
The couple met in 1996 and by October of the next year, they were
married. Seventeen years on and they are still bubbling with the love
they started with.
Although they faced a challenge that would have destroyed many homes,
the couple, despite not having a child in the first 12 years of their
marriage, held on to each other.
“The period before we had our first baby, was challenging. We had one
in the first year of our marriage, but it was a stillbirth. That was
the most challenging period of my marriage,” Isaac said, yet their
faith never withered and Nneka delivered a baby boy in 2012.
On what keeps them going, Nneka said, “It is easy because whatever
decision we make is in the best interest of our vision and passion.
There is no superiority contest between us. Above all, we both have the
fear of God inside of us.”
Soni and Betty IraborVeteran broadcaster, Soni
Irabor and wife, Betty have been married for more than three decades and
yet, they still look lovely together.
The couple celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary last year and it
was proof that love still radiates between them as they grow.
Despite both being professionals in their fields, Soni, the CEO,
Inspiration FM and Betty, the Publisher and Editor-in-chief, Genevieve
magazine, both have found a balance to make their home a standard others
could emulate.
“The truth about marriage is that there isn’t one that is perfect. We
are talking about strangers meeting, courting each other and deciding
to spend the rest of their lives together.
“Also let your marriage be your marriage. As much as possible, lock
out people who don’t need to be part of the marriage. But I thank God
that we never locked Him out of our marriage. He’s been the wind beneath
our sail,” Betty said in an interview in her own magazine.
Patrick and Ireti Doyle
Also a couple that have
been together for quite a while, Patrick and Ireti Doyle are celebrity
couple whose marriage radiates love and passion.
Having been together for more than a decade, Patrick and Doyle are a
couple with style, elegance and attitudes others would love to pattern
themselves after.
“I think we are just lucky to have found each other. We have no
strategies or secrets in making the marriage work, but God has just been
merciful to us and we just determined to make it work,” Patrick said in
an interview.
What keeps them going? how do they manage and survive trying times
over the course of their marriage especially with the loss of their
second son in 2009? Ireti noted the feeling was indescribable, as
Patrick chipped in:
“It pays to keep your private life private, so when the storms hit, you handle it privately,” Ireti said.
Olu Jacobs and Joke SilvaOlu Jacobs and Joke
Silva got married in 1985 and three decades on, their love life still
blossoms. This was more than revealed during Joke Silva’s 50th birthday
celebration in 2011, where they both renewed marital vows.
Despite the 19-year age difference between them, for Olu, it was love at first sight.
Olu recalls:“The first time I saw her, I looked at her and said, ladies and gentlemen, this is the woman I am going to marry.”
Words went round over the years that they were calling it quits, as
Joke in an interview admitted that they also had their trying times.
“It’s not like we actually separated, but I must confess we were so
close to it. It was really a tough time for both of us being
couple-in-the-news. However, I thank God for bringing solutions that I
never thought were,” she said.
They are couples many wonder how they manage to keep it together for
years, despite being in the eyes of the world. But Olu Jacobs said “It
is always good when God gives you your friend as a spouse, when you meet
your friend as your wife, life will be much easier, because when others
fail, you will succeed.”
Tunde and Wunmi Obe They are unarguably one of the most exciting couples in the Nigerian entertainment industry.
They are energetic, funny and fascinating to watch. The couple that
go by the name TWO have been together since their days at the
university.
They had been together for 10 years, before they finally tied the
knot in 1998 and recently, the couple celebrated their 16th wedding
anniversary.
“I love him so very much, he is my greatest companion,” Wunmi said in
an interview, while Tunde said, “I love my wife with every fibre of my
body.”
Even through their music videos, one could see a sparkling
connection between the two and they have also managed to stay
scandal-free over the years. On how they manage to achieve this, the
couple believe that God is behind their marriage and that without divine
intervention, they couldn’t have lasted this long.
“Also, we don’t allow a third party because there was no third party
when we decided to get married. A lot of couples involve third party
because they don’t know how to deal with each other. When you are
determined that this marriage would work, you will take steps without
inviting a third party,” Wunmi said.
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